Thursday, July 12, 2012

Users and exercise.

So this might bite some people on the ass and piss them off...which could result in a mass unfollowing of my blog...but I really don't care.

STOP BEING USERS!!!!  Yes....those people w ho use the blogs for support and inspiration to reach their weight loss goals..then disappear once they have made it.  Not lending support to the others that are still trying to make it there.  Just use them up and then walk away.  Or the ones of you who will only comment on a blog if they have commented on yours.  Grow up and stop being childish.  This is not the elementary school playground people.

You are selfish.  If you don't plan on supporting others the way they supported you when you needed it...you are an inconsiderate, selfish asshole!!!!!!  I wish you would just go fuck yourself in the butt with no vaseline!!!!

I hate a few things in life...liars and users are at the top of my list.

Okay...I just needed to get that off my chest.

In other news....my weight is finally going back down after the unfill.  I'm excited to see the scale move when I step on it each week.  It makes my heart flutter.  LOL

I really do love a good workout.  I have committed myself to 5 days a week of Bikram Yoga and 3 days of running.  I still take my 2 days of rest...more if I just don't want to do it.  The kickball tryout was cancelled due to excessive ran.  Oh...I'm cancelling my gym membership.  It is through my health insurance.  I had enjoyed working out at 24 hour fitness, but they are leaving the network.  Anytime Fitness is coming into the network...but I don't like any of their locations.  So I'm not going to pay for something I'm not using.  I'm entirely to cheap for that.

My food choices have been pretty good.  However, there are some days that don't look so great. LOL.  I'm going to celebrate my birthday with dinner at Ruth Chris Steakhouse.  I love that place.   Yummy.

I hope everyone has enjoyed their week.  If I don't talk to you before tomorrow...Have an awesome weekend!!!

25 comments:

A.J. said...

I guess I am a guilty party. Sometimes real life gets so painful that it's all you can do to live through it let alone blog about it.

Laura Belle said...

You know, I completely agree with you. Last year I was trying to comment on everyone's blogs as much as I could. Just to give a little 'hey' or a little motivation. Then the last few months I have been sooo bad. It's just been crazy. But i'm getting back to my LaLa Land of Paradise and able to comment. But what I loved most about my last few months, every time I posted I would still have people comment. Like you and Draz, and Ronnie, and Vicky. That just made my day. I knew I wasn't being fair to you guys by not commenting back, but I knew that I had your support no matter what!

So thank you!
You're best!

LDswims said...

I'm totally guilty as charged and I totally get it. I love commenting. I think I love commenting more than I love getting comments sometimes. And I'm bad all around these days. I'm trying to be better but I don't hold it against anyone that chooses to walk away from my blog because of exactly this.

vickyd said...

Guilty as charged *hangs head in shame*...but I'm trying to do better...Brenda sent me an email today asking if I'm still alive so I guess it's time to post something on my blog, huh?

I'm glad you're enjoying your yoga and running...I've never tried Bikram...it sounds like fun!

Linda said...

I just unfollowed you. :b
I know I'm guilty of that to a point but I hope I always give a comment when someone really needs the support.
I love you and I'm so proud of your hard work.

Anonymous said...

How is Bikram Yoga because Yoga is my least favorite thing to do but I need to work on my flexibility and stretch more.

MandaPanda said...

Ruth's Chris is my absolute FAV restaurant! Mmmmm...Now I want to go so bad. Yoga 5 days a week AND running??? You're a superstar!

Sandy said...

Umm... Is this me? I have a pain in the butt just thinking of no Vaseline. Glad that's off your chest. No one is commenting lately. But Ask me like this and, well, it brings out the best in all of us. You go girl. Keep up the good work. Rock the band! Ummm.. I'm out of inspiration so go read those inspirational quotes on Pinterest. They have some really funny ones which do not involve Vaseline.

Lap Band Gal said...

Nice ass kicking post.

Seriously.

I want to give you a big bouquet of flowers...like you've just won an olympic medal.

Nicely done. :)

PS: way to go with that hot yoga.

Rhonda said...

Guilty not too long ago. No longer guilty! lol

But I feel ya. Keep working that exercise, beautiful lady! I love you. :)

mallory said...

No vaseline huh? Ouch! How do you like the Bikram yoga? I haven't tried that yet but I am loving yoga lately so I want to give it a try.

Vanessa said...

Way to go on the yoga! No Vaseline....I hate when that happens...ha!

Kristin said...

I love you!

I am grateful that you share your ups and downs! I love your honesty and wow up the ass without vaseline.......that gave me shivers LOL

I wrote a blog similar to this one a few months ago.

I feel compelled to share what I learn on this journey. If someone would have done that years ago with me, I may have lost the weight much sooner, who knows.

I love the BOOBS and the support I receive. Even though I may not get 100 of comments the ones who do truly care about me.

I know who was there when my world came crashing down in March and I was losing the band.

I will always help those who may need it, and listen to those who have already made it!

Hugs

Cat said...

Guilty as charged the last few months. Haven't had the time or what little I have had hasn't been able to be spent blogging/commenting. I will attempt to do better, but that's really all I can do.

Great job on exercise. You are such a rockstar.

jennxaz said...

yep the concept of giving back is lacking in some bloggers!

Rachel said...

I literally almost peed myself when I read your no vaseline comment. You have a fair point and I admire you for actually saying something! Good for you for cancelling a gym membership that you wont use - I have paid for so many unused memberships in my lifetime - no more! xoxo

Ivy said...

Ruth's Chris?? You better be chewin like a mo-fo!! Tiny little bites! Steak took me DOWN at xmas time and I nearly missed the entire celebration because of a stuck incident. Without knowing it, you are inspiring me to get my ass to the gym today. My boss is out of the office and I can pretty much doddle and take all the time I need, so I have no excuse. My reward will be looking even cuter on the beach tomorrow!! Woot woot!

Joey said...

Was this post meant for me? I haven't given up completely. When WL was all consuming it was really easy to be an active blogger. Now I'm consumed by other things (even though I should still be losing weight). Funny thing is that I'm not reading blogs about the other life chapters. If I do blog it's for sure with this group.

I guess I'm an asshole? Yeah. Kinda.

I agree that I hate it when people only comment once you have commented. It's so FB.

Sarah said...

I think once weight is lost it becomes less of a priority in people's everyday lives. We are all super busy but well done for reminding them to make more of an effort. Although that said, keeping up with blogs can be full time work in itself.

Brenda said...

I have always wanted to try Bickram Yoga but there is no place to take it out here in Podunk, TX.

Michelle said...

I have only been blogging for 6 months and have found a world of support, information ... You know real information. For that I am forever greatful.


Birkrim yoga sounds cool.

trishajo said...

I'm there with ya girl... good points...

I've never been to Ruth Chris and SOOO want to.

Island Bandit said...

Did ya Have to call me out like that woman?!?!? Lol. I've been as bad add they come But just got a snazzy new .phone and downloaded apps so I'm gonna be a blogging blog reading fool again. Careful what you wish for!

Steph said...

Personally I don't give a rats ass anymore if people comment or not on my blog! :) i try to keep up with people and since we talke via email all the time, it's sort of redundant, but you know I'm there for you!

Andrea said...

I love that you just speak what's on your mind!

We definitely all need to be there to support each other.